A Mature Mindset: You Have a Choice to Make

Posted by Worldview Warriors On Tuesday, October 8, 2024 0 comments


by Jason DeZurik

Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
- James 1:2-4

When I was growing up, I was blessed to have the opportunity to participate on a football team in school. I believe I was in my sophomore year of high school when the following happened.

It was a gloomy rainy day, all day, in October. Growing up in Minnesota, I assure you that it was also quite windy and cold, too. While the weather was not clearing up, many of my friends and I were discussing if maybe perhaps we’d have practice in the gymnasium because certainly our coaches would not put us in the windy, cold, and wet weather outside. Surely, they wouldn’t want to have the possibility of getting sick so we might possibly miss a game! After literally discussing this almost every hour during the school day, many of us had convinced ourselves that we most certainly were going to be inside for the evening practice.

Once in the locker room, many of us were just dilly dallying around, hoping to hear the news that we wouldn’t need to put on our football pants in favor of shorts to practice in the gym. Our coach walked into the locker room a little surprised that many of us weren’t dressed for practice, and he said, “Get your gear on! Practice is starting soon!” We all got our practice gear on and headed outside. Large puddles were everywhere on the practice field. It was cold, wet, and windy. One of our coaches said, “I recommend you just jump in the puddles and get used to it. Stretch out!”

On hearing that, many of the team jumped into the puddles and just decided to embrace the situation. Others on the team gingerly sat down on the cold, wet field, clearly not enjoying themselves. Some complained out loud and chose to sit down, at least for a while. It was one of the most miserable practices I’ve ever been through. Those who embraced it helped the entire team raise their spirit through the situation. Even though our hands became numb and we were soaked to the bone, going through that though helped me and many of my teammates realize we needed to go through that difficulty if we were going to be a team that could be good.

As we went through that and other hardships together, we started to galvanize as a team – not just during football but becoming very good friends. We not only started to trust one another, but we genuinely started to actually like one another. With that said, I am thankful for the coaches that pushed us to do better and to be better. They taught us to change our mindset.

I would not be the man I am today without their guidance and influence in my life. Friends, we need to grow and become mature and complete not lacking anything.

Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
- Romans 12:1-2

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