“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”
- Galatians 5:22-23
Faithfulness is a simple word, but it can often be a rare characteristic to find in our world today. Commitments are easily broken, promises often go unkept, loyalty bends when it becomes inconvenient, and truth gets changed to fit what we want to believe. Our world does not celebrate faithfulness in the way talent, charisma, or success are. But in God’s Kingdom, faithfulness is a pillar of spiritual maturity.
Faithfulness is consistency in a world of inconsistency, being steadfast when others drift. It is integrity when compromise tempts, it is loyalty when walking away feels easier, and it is one of the clearest reflections of the God we serve.
The Greek word for faithfulness has meaning nuances that include trustworthiness, reliability, loyalty, steadfast commitment, integrity, dependability, and confidence in God. Faithfulness means you can be counted on, not because of your own strength, but because your life is anchored in the unchanging character of God. Faithfulness is not just about what we believe, but how we live what we believe.
Faithfulness begins with how God demonstrates His faithfulness. Scripture tells us of God’s faithfulness in many places. “Your kingdom is an everlasting kingdom, and your dominion endures through all generations. The Lord is trustworthy in all he promises and faithful in all he does” (Psalm 145:13). “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness” (Lamentations 3:22-23). “If we are faithless, he remains faithful, for he cannot disown himself.” (2 Timothy 2:13).
Because God is faithful, He is unchanging, reliable, steady, consistent, unconditional, and eternal. He never forgets His promises, never breaks His word, never abandons His people, and never stops loving us. God’s faithfulness is the foundation for ours; we are faithful because He is faithful first.
Jesus demonstrated faithfulness during His life on earth. He was always faithful to His Father’s will, faithful in teaching truth, faithful in obedience even to death, faithful in loving the broken, faithful to the mission of redemption, faithful in prayer, faithful in compassion, and faithful in sacrifice. Even when His closest friends failed, fled, or denied Him, Jesus remained faithful. Jesus is a great example for us to look at to see what faithful and steadfast love truly looks like.
How can we live out faithfulness in our everyday lives? We should first be faithful to God by consistently spending time in Scripture, developing a life of prayer, obeying His Word even when it’s difficult, worshiping not just on Sundays, but with our whole lives, trusting Him in trials, not just in blessings, and staying committed when feelings fluctuate. Faithfulness is choosing God again and again, not based on our ever-changing emotions but on our convictions.
Next, we should be faithful in our relationships with those around us. That means keeping your word, being dependable, showing up in both good times and hard times, being consistent rather than unpredictable, loving with commitment, protecting trust rather than breaking it, and encouraging instead of abandoning. This will build strong friendships and help our communities thrive.
Finally, we should be faithful in the daily responsibilities we have. God cares deeply about how we steward what He has entrusted to us: our work, our finances, our time, our gifts and talents, our influence, and our service in the church. Faithfulness means doing what is right even when no one sees, applauds, or rewards you. Faithfulness is often not glamorous, but it is transformative.
However, all of that definitely seems easier said than done! Our culture generally prefers instant results over long-term obedience. Feelings are often a higher priority than commitments. Convenience is idolized. Self-discipline is difficult because we have been trained to dislike and avoid any kind of discomfort. When things get hard, we often doubt rather than reminding ourselves of God’s faithfulness and how we should imitate that. Faithfulness requires perseverance, self-control, and trust in God’s timing.
Just as with all the other fruit of the Spirit, we cannot manufacture it by willpower alone. We need the Holy Spirit to produce in us what the flesh resists.
While the world celebrates what is flashy and fast, Scripture celebrates what is faithful and enduring. God values faithfulness over giftedness, obedience over achievement, consistency over recognition, and devotion over talent. Faithfulness may not always be seen by others, but it is always seen by God. We should all strive to be told, “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:21).
Strive to be faithful in the small things; small obedience grows into lifelong devotion. Perfection is not the goal but rather consistency – keep showing up, even when you mess up. Keep your word to the best of your ability, and take responsibility when you break it. Our faithfulness should be anchored in God and who He is, not in our own actions. It’s our job to strive for obedience to God, and He will handle the rest.
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The year 2025 is coming to a close, and with that are going to be some significant changes with Worldview Warriors and what is being done. For those who have been following Jason’s “return” to the scene, it seems the ministry is firing back up, but my role in the ministry is going to change. For 12 years, I have been a blogger for the ministry, and at the end of this month, I will publish my final blog post for the time being. I will still be involved and will continue writing, and I will share more of that at the close of the month, but as I close out my weekly blog, I want to leave you all with two critical messages for our day and age.
Those who follow me know that I am not one who readily minces words. I just say it just as I see it and don’t have much of a filter in a very “over-sensitive” culture that has trained people to believe that their emotions are their literal identity and anything that would make them feel bad is an attack on their person. I cannot tell you how many times I will address the tactics and actions people are doing, and they think I am attacking them personally. It gets comical at times, but it’s also frustrating.
Making emotions our identity has led to some excessively weak people who completely crumble just at the word “no,” and it’s been supported by taking the Christian command of hospitality, love, and gentleness and twisting it on its head into what some have called “The 11th Commandment.” What is this unwritten commandment that seems to hold all precedence above any other command? “Thou shalt be nice.” Let’s define this by how it is practiced and used.
Being “nice” today is very much like being “tolerant.” You have to be open-minded to all opinions, treating anyone’s ideas with equal weight, except for any ideas that come from God. Because that, by definition, is not “nice.” You cannot say anything that would dare hurt anyone’s feelings or say they are wrong. Everything must not be merely sugar-coated but made of nothing but sugar. If someone actually wants to kill you and hates absolutely everything you stand for, you cannot stand your ground, but you must love and accept them and let them into your circles and home, and you must not speak against their beliefs or lifestyles. That is what being “nice” means in how it is being applied. No matter what anyone else says or does, the Christian is to be the doormat, a softie, a pansy.
C.T. Studd wrote an excellent essay to counter this: “The Chocolate Soldier.” This whole 11th Commandment of “thou shalt be nice” and “tolerant” is telling us that we need to be made of chocolate – a dandy, a lollipop, taste good, feel good, always hospitable, but never sour, rough, challenging, firm. This is a chocolate soldier. A weak, effeminate man who melts with the slightest amount of heat. We are in a battle, the greatest battle that has been going on for millennia. A battle for truth, a battle for souls, and God does not build his men with chocolate.
Studd went on to describe several men who were made of chocolate. Reuben and Meroz were rebuked in Deborah’s song for their lack of support in the war against Sisera. Balaam sought the wealth of the world and taught Israel to sin because he didn’t have the guts to do it himself. Demas left the faith to seek his own pleasure. Mark quit on Paul early in his ministry but then chose to quit being a chocolate, became Peter’s primary translator, and then a good friend of Paul’s. An old prophet deceived a man of God who rebuked Jeroboam for his idols. The ten spies melted like chocolate before the giants of Canaan and drove the rest of Israel to melt with them. Jonah ran away from God to avoid the task given to him.
Each of these men and tribes showcased at least one time of cowardice, weakness, or softness, and the end result was sin. Disobedience, defiance, worldliness, and frankly, an easy trophy for the enemy. Satan and this world LOVE chocolate soldiers; they’re so easy to devour. There is another key characteristic in this description: cowardice. The “chocolate soldier” is a coward, afraid, weak, pathetic, and caves and surrenders to the opinions and pressures of men and this world easily. And the coward is the first in the list of those who will not enter the kingdom of heaven in Revelation 21:8.
But we are not called to be “nice.” We are called to be men of actual substance. Studd describes what a real man of God looks like with many examples: Noah, Abraham, Moses, David, Nathan, Daniel, John the Baptist, and Paul, not to mention Jesus of Christ. There was no sugar or chocolate in them. And when there was, that was when sin came out (except for Jesus, of course). But there was no softness, no sugar, no “niceness,” no “tolerance” as this world wants of us. Instead, there is the rock-hard, firm resolve that changes this world. There is a refusal to back down without any regard to how it is received, and the only care is to be obedient to what God said to say and to do. Now, in this, there is the warning to be innocent as doves, so we are to do all we do without sin. But beware, our culture and many in the church consider standing your ground to be “toxic,” and to say “That does not belong in the church” to be “inhospitable” and “unloving.” And how dare we actually tell a professing Christian they are in error, let alone in heresy and outside the faith, when they have denied, directly or indirectly, Christ, the work of Christ, or even the necessity for Christ. It’s one thing to pursue Christ and be wrong. But when someone is intentionally teaching something in error and has no regard for correction, regardless of which “tone” is used, that must be called out.
Now, to be clear, every one of us has chocolate in us. Every one of us has those moments where we put our guard down and join the “chocolate brigade.” David did, Jonah did, Mark did, but they hated it and repented and rejoined God’s army properly. As for me, it doesn’t take long to see that I am not easily made of chocolate when it comes to truth, but I also know myself in other areas where I certainly have too much chocolate in me. We are to be kind and loving and draw people to Christ, but NEVER are we to be “nice” and cowardly. We must make a stand and not back down, telling this world, “We aren’t going anywhere.” And that is what we are seeking to do with Worldview Warriors. Even as I step down from blogging soon, it only means my job description is changing, not my position or my resolve. I’ll explain more on that in the upcoming couple of weeks.
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The prudent see danger and take refuge,
but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.
- Proverbs 22:3
I am blessed to have older children now, and it is very much a blessing to discuss things with them on an adult level, especially if they desire to look at all things from a Biblical perspective. Adult children are so much different than children who are still in their youth. One discussion some of my children and I have had within the last year was about the phrase, “everyone is replaceable.”
Admittedly, this phrase has always bothered me, even before I was a Christian, because it never really rang true with me at all. And I do mean AT ALL. To me, it really seems to be a phrase that’s nothing more than a threat; if you don’t fall in line, you’re replaceable. Is this really true, though? Again, I contend, not at all. I’ll even go so far as to say it is definitely NOT biblical in the least, and sadly, it has greatly impacted the Church and pastors all over the United States of America. Many now seemingly believe this abhorrent phrase to be true. Please think and pray about it. Why in the world do local churches now have HR departments? The R in that stands for resources, not relationships. And isn’t that really what the church should be about? Relationships.
Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
- Matthew 22:37-40
Our spiritual life should be about our relationship with God and our relationships with each other, not how I can use and abuse you for my benefit. That is ungodly.
Why do I so strongly and confidently claim this phrase is not biblical and is merely a threat to try and keep people in line? Because the Bible is clear that:
- We are fearfully and wonderfully made.
- We are God’s handiwork.
- We are all unique.
- God has given each of us gifts and talents because he has prepared for us in advance the good we ought to do.
Admittedly, I am sick and tired of seeing people just put “bodies into slots.” We do this all the time now in the American church, and it’s time for the church to stop following the way of the carnal world and realize we need to do things differently – Biblically. There is a right way to do things, and that is God’s way. It’s time for church leadership to own the fact that many of us have bought the corporate world mindset into the church, which is not of God at all. It is carnal.
Again, we’ve all heard it, “Everyone is replaceable.” Let me share with you what I believe is an eye-opening way to see how bad this phrase truly is. When we start looking at people as resources, “cogs” in a machine and not as unique individuals made in the image of God, we truly begin to believe that we can replace others at the same level of impact as before. For instance, if we have someone in a position that is incredibly effective in what they are doing and they are truly gifted, why would we think replacing them with someone with completely different gifts and talents will be as effective and as impactful? It truly makes no sense to me. Let’s use the “cog” idea to understand my concern over this. Why would we think getting rid of someone that is a steel cog and replacing them with a plastic cog would work and work fine? It won’t. Oh sure, for a time it might work and seemingly work well, but over time that person without the right talents and giftings is going to struggle and will start to fall apart like a plastic cog in a machine.
Now, can people grow and strengthen their weaknesses? With the Lord’s help, yes, of course. Sadly, though, it seems to me that far too many of us have bought into the idea of not living in our giftings. I believe it is very important for Christians to embrace who God has created us to be and become. By embracing how we’ve been created by God to live and be, we truly can live out the idea that in our weakness, He is strong. By leaning on God’s design and strengthening the strengths He has given to us, we will be strong in our weakness. Without God, we are weak. In our weakness, He is strong. When we surrender our lives to God, in our weakness, He is strong because we embrace who He has made us to become. Let’s strive to be strong in the Lord and stop being a “cog” in the machine!
Next week, I plan to share why focusing on our God-given gifts and talents is so incredibly important in advancing the Kingdom of God here on the earth.
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“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”
- Galatians 5:22-23
The world talks a lot about being “a good person” – good intentions, good vibes, do what feels good. But Biblical goodness is something much deeper, richer, and more transformative.
Goodness in Scripture isn’t just about being morally upright; it is a life shaped by God, directed toward others, and committed to doing what is right even when it is hard, unpopular, unnoticed, or costly. Goodness is the active expression of righteousness and truth. It is love in its moral and ethical form; it is love that acts in integrity.
The Greek word used in Galatians 5:22 is a word used rarely in Greek literature because it refers to goodness that is found only in God and produced by God. Biblical goodness includes moral integrity, uprightness of heart, a passion for righteousness and truth, generosity that reflects God’s heart, courage to stand for what is right, and compassion in action. Goodness is not passive but rather pushes back darkness and chooses righteousness, even at personal cost.
Before we can live out goodness, we must recognize that it comes from God. Psalm 107:1 says, “Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.” James 1:17 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” God isn’t just good at times; He is goodness itself. His nature defines what is good, not culture, emotions, or personal preference.
Just like with the other fruit of the Spirit, we don’t practice goodness to earn God’s love. We practice goodness because we have experienced His goodness first.
Jesus was the embodiment of goodness on Earth. He healed the sick, fed the hungry, protected the vulnerable, spoke truth boldly, chose obedience over comfort, forgave those who accused and crucified Him, and sacrificed Himself to save us. His goodness wasn’t soft or sentimental; it was holy, courageous, and costly. It confronted sin while extending mercy and hope. To follow Jesus is to let His goodness reshape our hearts and actions.
Goodness matters in our world because we live in a time when moral lines are blurred, where values shift with opinion polls and personal desires. “Good” can be redefined to mean “whatever makes me happy.” But Scripture anchors us: “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.” (Isaiah 5:20). God’s goodness gives us moral clarity in a morally confused age. It reminds us there there is truth, and true standards of right and wrong do exist.
We don’t need dramatic moments to practice goodness; we need daily surrender and Spirit-led obedience. Goodness is part of our Christian witness, as our actions can point people to Christ or away from Him. Perhaps goodness looks like choosing honestly when a little white lie would be easier. It may look like standing up for someone being mistreated. It may look like being secretly generous without getting praised. It may look like being reliable and trustworthy. Goodness is seeing every interaction as a chance to reflect the goodness of God.
But, goodness isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it means saying no when you want to say yes, or speaking the truth in love when staying silent is more comfortable. Goodness means refusing to participate in harmful behavior. It means obeying God even when people misunderstand you. Goodness requires courage and conviction in being a follower of Jesus.
That may sound difficult, if not impossible, and it is – by human standards. But the Holy Spirit strengthens us to live lives that show others God’s goodness. We cannot bear this fruit on our own; it is the Spirit’s fruit, showing in our lives.
We can intentionally cultivate goodness by staying rooted in Scripture, because God’s Word is the true guide for what is good. We need to guard our hearts, as goodness flows from within; what we allow into our minds shapes our character. We need to practice integrity in small things because when we are faithful in little things, we will also be faithful in big things (Luke 16:10). We should ask God for help to purify our motives to reflect His goodness, and then seek accountability from those around us to continue living out God’s goodness.
Where have you experienced God’s goodness recently? Who in your life needs to see and feel the goodness of God through your actions?
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Jesus is not done with us. While He ascended to heaven and is reigning and ruling, He has been preparing a place for us, and that place is a city that is so large that it defies physics. It is described as a cube of 1500 miles in each direction, including vertical. Due to the curvature of the Earth, this is an impossibility on Earth. So clearly, the new earth is going to be operating under a different set of physics, or at least a very different type of planet. But not all are going to be there.
Every person is going to face God on Judgment Day. I recently wrote about the resurrection and how everyone is going to have resurrected bodies that will not perish. But there, everyone will give an account for their lives. Every one of us is going to give an account for our time, our choices, our actions, etc. Jesus is going to step up and proclaim to the Father who are His and who He died for. Those whom Jesus defends will be saved from the judgment, and those whom He does not will be cast into Hell.
We have a severe problem in our day and time because we think Jesus is going to cover for everything. The issue of “free grace” and that it doesn’t matter what we do, Jesus died for it all, is not exactly true. It is true, but it’s not the whole picture. Jesus’ death covered our sins; however, Jesus did not die for us to live our own lives. And many people will call upon the name of Jesus, and Jesus is going to say, “I don’t know them.” I am disturbed by the many I hear speak about their salvation with such great confidence, and yet what I hear come out of their mouths is so antithetical to Christian thinking that I really do have to wonder if they have ever heard the Gospel. I am not talking about perfection here; I am talking about direction. I do not believe you are saved if you consistently and regularly put Scripture into question and promote the academics of the world, who are in opposition to God instead. Jesus is not just going to cover for people just because they proclaimed faith in Him. We need to get that through our heads.
Jesus is going to defend those who have His “seed” in them. The Bible speaks of marriage, the most intimate relationship between two people, as our relationship to Christ. Jesus is going to turn away those whom He did not “know.” To “know” is the euphemism of sexual intimacy. I have been trying to figure out a way to describe this discretely, but those who are saved are those in whom Jesus’ “seed” has been planted and which bears fruit. Read all of Jesus’ warnings and parables. If we are the Bride of Christ, we have the “womb” to bear the Seed of Christ, which is supposed to nurture and bear fruit and life. But the problem we have due to modern evangelical methods is that we think we can do the salvation thing without that intimacy, because we are just playing intellectual games, and our religion is just what we intellectually choose to believe. But where is Christ in it?
Do not hear what I am not saying. I am not saying we have to have all our ducks in a row doctrinally, though we cannot ignore them. I am also saying we can’t just claim the name of Jesus and do our own thing. Read Isaiah 4. I heard about it from David Wilkerson, who pointed out that of seven virgins taking hold of one man to have his name to take away their reproach, but he has no obligation to take care of them, and they’ll do their own thing. That is what is happening today. Many are taking the name of Jesus so they can deal with their sin, but it is all on their own terms and doing their own thing. That is not Christianity.
Jesus is not just going to save people because we say His name, do good deeds, or proclaim great doctrine. Jesus is going to save people with whom He has had an intimate relationship AND seed that bears fruit. That’s the other half of it. Having the seed of Christ is not enough; it has to grow and bear fruit. The Parable of the Sower shows that only good soil is going to bear fruit. And pay attention: of the four soils, only one of them was worked and prepared by the farmer for good fruit. The rocky soil and weedy soil were left unattended. And in John 15, Jesus speaks about branches that don’t bear fruit to be cut off and burned. Now, many people will argue back and forth about free will vs predestination, and I’m like, “I see both doctrines running side by side here.” We need to understand that the vine that bears fruit is the one that Jesus works on, prunes, trims, and waters. And if we are a branch that is going to be a hindrance, we will be cut off. Now, Jesus still works despite our flaws and with our flaws already in mind, but we need to take this seriously.
Is Jesus working in your life? Are you being made closer to Him? How do you know? Here are some clues. Are you longing more and more to be like Christ? Are you desiring the world’s pleasure less and less? Are you seeking to be right with God more than you are seeking to be in alignment with the world? What direction are you heading? Do you believe what you profess to believe, or is it actually someone else’s beliefs you are riding? Jesus is going to save those whom He knows and who do His will. And those are the ones in whom we will see the work of Christ being made manifest. But not everyone is going to show this. There are unsaved people in every congregation, just according to statistics, and some of them are the most dedicated, most doctrinally sound, and moral people you know. But are they actually saved? Are you saved? Am I saved? Just before I came to write for Worldview Warriors in 2014, I went through a thorough self-examination, and I had to truly evaluate if I was saved or not, and I praise God that He confirmed I was. Because before them, I honestly don’t know if I could say if I was saved or not, even though I made my first profession of faith when I was seven. For 23 years, I lived riding someone else’s faith. It really did not become mine until I was about 30. I cannot say that I was truly saved prior to this. I may have been, but I don’t know. And I thank God that He did not let me continue that way. It is one thing to say you know Jesus. The real question is: Does Jesus know you?
This concludes my series on Snapshots of Jesus. For December, I have a very different message and direction God is leading me towards, and I’ll share about that then.
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“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”
- Romans 8:28
Back in 2006, due to a change in leadership in the church I was serving in and a change in ministry direction from that leadership, I believed that God was calling me to leave a very successful youth ministry that I and many others had poured our hearts into for many, many years. It was a very difficult decision to make because the previous leadership I served under had supported us (with their actions, words, and even finances) in training and equipping the students in the youth ministry to go out and speak into other youth around the country for the sake of the gospel.
Not only had we already made trips to other states with music and conference events, but we had been training our team of adults and youth for literally years before this new leadership and direction came into this church. I was even told by the new leadership that we don’t need you going all around the country teaching and sinking into other youth. We need you sinking into our youth here. Yes, this was emphasized by the new leadership that our youth at the church were what mattered. It was incredibly mind-blowing to me because this new leadership said they were all about reaching out to the unsaved and the unchurched. What they really meant was that we are all for reaching out to the lost if it is our idea and not yours.
Admittedly, I was seriously devastated! All of that work, time, effort, and spending of money happened for what purpose? God and I had many conversations over that time.
It’s just one reason why I hold to the belief I do regarding Romans 13 and submitting to earthly authorities. Either God establishes the authorities on this earth or He doesn’t. At that time, I had a serious choice to make:
#1. Stay at the church God had called me to, and rebel against this new direction they believed they were called to go in.
#2. Stay and be quiet while being incredibly miserable, being paid a good wage in order to “take care of my family,” and in doing so, not follow God in what He was calling me to do.
#3. Leave and stay the course with what God was calling me and my family to do.
It was a tough decision to make. Many at that time, and with what seemed to be good intentions, tried to counsel and sway me away from leaving to officially start full-time with Worldview Warriors. They tried to sway me into staying in my position by reminding me I had a responsibility to support my wife and to provide for our 6 children. It was so incredibly difficult inside and outside of our home. However, when is it not difficult when God is calling you to something outside of your comfort zone and much bigger than yourself? So, after almost 10 years of ministry in a wonderful youth ministry position, with much prayer, godly counsel, and tears, I chose to follow God’s leading for my family and me, even though I thought Worldview Warriors, with the support of the first pastor I served under, would be a huge part of this congregation and its ministry.
After leaving this youth ministry position, in June of 2007, I made a very pointed decision to strive to get into the world of atheists, agnostics, and non-believers in Jesus Christ to try and understand better what they believed and how they chose to think. During that same time, I went from working in a very wonderful office setting and hanging out with people in person a lot to working out of a dark, dingy basement by myself for a time. Sometime in 2008 to 2009, I was the only founder left in Worldview Warriors. During that time, I learned a lot about how people think and why they believe what they believe. You see, before God put me on this path, I thought the majority of people would see truth and accept truth as truth once they were exposed to the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Boy, was I wrong! What I have experienced since 2007 has been a whole other experience altogether. I think what has been and is still the most shocking experience on this journey is the fact that many people do not understand the difference between an opinion and the truth. It has been incredibly eye-opening to me because before I was a Christ follower, when I was out searching for the truth, I wanted the truth regardless of where it took me. I didn’t care if what I thought was wrong. I didn’t care if it was uncomfortable, and I certainly didn’t care if I disagreed with it. All I wanted was the TRUTH at all costs.
Today, unfortunately, many people are not really interested in the truth. My experience has been that they want to be right at all costs and want their beliefs, even if they are wrong, to be confirmed as true. Many today desire good gifts and good outcomes even when the truth of God or God’s natural law says otherwise.
This brings me to the title of this blog post and why it is so important. Failing has the potential to be an incredible teacher of how not to do things in order to lead a person to the truth. When a person keeps doing the same thing over and over and not learning from their failures, they are not living up to their incredible potential given to them by God Almighty. When a person is stiff-necked and is unwilling to change their ways to find the truth, that person is just stuck – stuck in misery and stuck in failure. That person can also be stuck in victimhood, instead of victory in Jesus.
Once a person realizes they are stuck in failure and they choose to do something about it, by choosing God’s way over their own, or at the very least trying to do things God’s way, it can be a very freeing day for that person and their life in Christ. Victory in Jesus is right there for the taking if we are willing to grab hold of it and surrender our lives to Jesus Christ.
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“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”
- Galatians 5:22-23
The virtue of kindness sounds simple until we try to live it out consistently. We admire it in others and we expect it from others, but practicing genuine kindness day after day, toward every person, especially when it costs us, reveals just how supernatural this fruit truly is. Kindness is not niceness alone, nor is it forced politeness or artificial sweetness. Biblical kindness is strength wrapped in compassion, truth delivered with grace, and love expressed in action. Kindness is the visible, tangible expression of God’s love flowing through us.
The Greek word for kindness here has connotations of goodness with tenderness, benevolence in action, grace in motion, a posture of compassion, generosity, and goodwill, and a spirit that looks for ways to bless and build up. Kindness is love in action. Kindness is expressed through gentle words, helpful actions, thoughtful responses, compassionate attitudes, encouragement, comfort, hospitality, generosity, and mercy, even when not deserved. Kindness is not just feeling sympathetic emotions, but rather doing something about it.
It is important to remember that everything God asks of us (and the Spirit produces in us), He first demonstrates toward us. Scripture repeatedly highlights God’s incredible kindness. His kindness leads us to repentance (Romans 2:4). He saves us through His kindness in Christ (Titus 3:4-5). He shows immeasurable riches of His grace and kindness (Ephesians 2:7). His kindness is unfailing and everlasting (Jeremiah 31:3).
That is the kindness we are called to reflect to others. We do not show kindness to earn God’s love, but because we have already received His limitless kindness. Kindness is worship modeled after our Father.
Jesus didn’t say the world would know us by our opinions, theology, or church attendance. He said, “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:35). Real love must be expressed, and kindness is one of its clearest expressions. When Christians are unkind, our witness is wounded. But when Christians are consistently kind, hearts soften, doors open, and Christ becomes visible.
The world answers insult with insult, anger with anger, and hardness with hardness. But Jesus showed us a better way: “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you” (Luke 6:27). Kindness has the power to interrupt cycles of bitterness and create new pathways of peace. It turns conflict into an opportunity for grace. Churches, families, workplaces, and friendships thrive not when everyone is perfect but when kindness makes room for imperfection. Kindness helps us bridge misunderstandings, and it encourages maturity in our relationships. Where kindness abounds, community flourishes.
Practicing kindness, through the power of the Holy Spirit living in us, changes our hearts. It humbles us and turns our ears to God’s voice. It aligns our hearts with His love. Kindness is not just something we do; it’s someone we become as the Spirit forms Christ in us.
But it is also important to know what kindness is not. Kindness is not niceness without truth; it does not avoid hard conversations but approaches them gently and lovingly. Kindness is not embracing harmful behavior or excusing sin; it offers grace and truth. Kindness is not just being a people pleaser, seeking affirmation, but seeking the good of others to glorify God. Kindness is not just random acts without a continuing relationship of blessing others.
No one embodied kindness more perfectly than Jesus. He touched lepers no one would touch. He welcomed children others dismissed. He defended the broken, the shamed, and the overlooked. He restored dignity to the outcast and hope to the sinner. He spoke truth that healed instead of crushed. He laid down His life for those who rejected Him. Jesus did not show kindness from a distance, but He entered pain, noticed needs, stopped for individuals, and gave Himself fully. Following Jesus is to follow His example of radical, compassionate kindness.
True, Biblical kindness cannot be manufactured by willpower, but it is a fruit produced by the Holy Spirit. The Spirit grows kindness in us as we abide in Christ, allow God to transform our thoughts, pray for a compassionate heart, and slow down and take notice of those around us and how we can fill their needs in truth and love. Kindness grows through practice and faithfulness.
Unfortunately, several forces war against kindness in our hearts. Self-centeredness focuses on our needs, not others’. Busyness hinders kindness by not allowing time for it in our lives. Frustration and stress obstruct kindness because we are not at peace with God. Judgment of others causes us to withhold kindness when we think others don’t deserve it. To overcome these obstacles, we must draw daily from God’s kindness toward us. We love because He first loved us, and we show kindness because He first showed kindness to us.
Kindness may seem simple, but it is holy work. Every act of kindness is a seed of the Kingdom, and every kind act testifies to the power of the Spirit and the love of God in our lives. Pray and ask how you can make the love of Jesus tangible to those around you.
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