Since God has put my family and me on this Worldview Warriors journey, there have been plenty of times when we have wanted to say, “Enough—we’re done!” However, God keeps showing us that this is not an option. We must stay the course and continue serving Him in this way. We are called to equip not only students but also their parents to become fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ, even if it isn’t comfortable or doesn’t bring happiness. No matter what, we are all called to rejoice and fully rely on God for our needs.
The following true story happened to us in 2009.
My family’s favorite meal is breakfast, and we especially love cereal, hot or cold. One morning my three-year-old daughter asked me for a bowl of cereal. I retrieved the bowls, spoons, and cereal and placed them all on the table. As I poured the cereal, my daughter asked for “nilk” [sic]. So I went to the fridge to get the milk, but there wasn’t any. Next I tried our beat-up, donated, second fridge in the garage to get our extra milk. (With 6 kids, we usually go through a gallon a day in our house.) Much to my chagrin, that refrigerator was also devoid of any milk.
I told my wife that I’d be walking down to the grocery store to get some milk for the morning’s breakfast.
I was taken aback by her reply, “Oh no, you can’t.”
“Why not?”
She informed me that we had no cash and no money in our checking account to write a check. We were completely broke!
(Now I just want to be clear. We have no debt whatsoever and pay all our bills on time. Doing ministry is very challenging because there are times that it seems like our needs will not be met. We do not at all live an extravagant lifestyle and often go without some basics. But our needs are always met.)
On this morning, however, I disregarded my wife’s statement. “Yeah, whatever, I’m going to get some milk.”
But she held fast, “No.”
My wife looked at my daughter and me and said, “Well, let’s pray. Let’s ask God to supply us some milk this morning.”
I’m sure my face registered cynicism—“Are you joking?,” for my wife said, “Well, Daddy, you can just stay in here and have a bad attitude, but the kids and I are going to go into the dining room and pray.”
And that is exactly what they did. My wife and children sat down together at the dining room table, praying to the God of the universe, while I stood in the kitchen like a pouting child.
Then I heard my three-year-old daughter’s small, soft voice say, “Dear Jesus, we need some nilk. Please, Jesus, get us some nilk for our cereal. We really like nilk.”
I couldn’t hold back any longer. I started sobbing and joined my family.
About five minutes into our praying for “nilk,” we heard a knock on the door. I was honestly startled and looked at my wife in shock. Surely, this couldn’t be the milk we had been praying for, could it?
We opened the door to find one of our friends. She said, “Hey everyone, we’re going on vacation to Minnesota for the next three weeks. We have some extra milk and don’t want it to go bad. Do you need some milk?”
She held up three gallons of milk in her hands.
With exclamation, we told her what had just happened, and we all rejoiced together about how God had heard our prayer and laid it on her heart to bring this over to us at that very moment.
There is no way this was just a coincidence. And there is no way other than the prompting of the Holy Spirit that she knew to bring that to us. We still praise God for this memorable display of His provision. I would love to tell you more ways that the Spirit of God has worked in my family’s life.
I hope this story encouraged you to believe that God will supply your need. If you have faith in God, live it. If you do not have faith in God, please seek Him. He’s making Himself known to you: are you listening?
As you reflect on God’s provision in your life, read Malachi 3:10 and James 5:7-12.
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” - Isaiah 41:10
I have watched countless interviews in which men and women of God are repeatedly asked the same type of question, but they rarely offer an appropriate answer or simply dodge the question altogether. Frustrated by their lackluster response, I would like to address these questions posed by numerous television and radio hosts. They ask, “If your God is as powerful and loving as you claim, why didn’t He stop the devastation in Japan from happening? Is your God really only all-powerful but not loving, or is He all-loving but not powerful? Which is it?”
I hope that my Christian brothers and sisters who are far more influential than I take notice because you are seriously driving us who know the truth crazy! Speak the truth already! (Note: I am not slandering you. I am trying to help you see that it is time to stand up for the truth and stop being silent on this matter.)
When God created the universe, everything was perfect. No death. No disease. No thorns or thistles. This means all of creation was perfect. Death, disease, and hardship are a result of our sin — our disobedience to God.
Is God all-loving? Yes, God’s love for us is ultimate. He allows us to do whatever we choose, but there are consequences for our sinful actions. Sins from the past affect the future, and our sins today affect the present as well as the future. So stop blaming God or saying, “I don’t know the answer”! The earthquake and tsunami would not have happened if He had made us puppets and made us do what He wanted us to do. But we would not have FREEDOM! We would truly be slaves to this Being.
Is He all-powerful? Why yes, He is all-powerful. By His very own words He spoke the heavens and the earth into existence. He defeated death! No one in history, except for this God, has ever died, rose from the dead, and stayed alive, never to die again. No one.
We die now. Before we sinned, we didn’t die. No tornados. No tsunamis. It was perfection.
Stop blaming God. Or help others to understand that they need to stop blaming God. He did not cause this. He is allowing it to happen so that we will all turn to Him and repent. His Word is clear that some will repent and confess their sins and others will curse God. He loves you so much that He wants you to be with Him for eternity. But He wants you to make the choice for yourself. He has given you free-will to decide to follow or decide to walk away.
In this discussion, “I don’t know” just doesn’t cut it anymore. If we didn’t have an answer, then “I don’t know” would be fine, but we have the answer. It’s time to share it. I recently heard an author who calls himself a Christ-follower answer the question of whether God is all-powerful or all-loving with the response, “It’s a paradox.” Unless this person is really a follower of some other god, it is not a paradox. As Christ-followers, we have the answer.
To my Christian brothers and sisters who are on these shows: know that I am praying for you to start being strong in Christ and speaking out the truth in love instead of being wishy-washy. This confuses people who are seeking the truth and puts fellow Christ–followers on the defensive. And we know what happens to those who are on the defensive: “When you dig a foxhole, you dig your grave” (General George S. Patton Jr.). Please start answering this question with a biblical answer. Otherwise, all you are doing is making a mockery of God and His Good News for the world.
As one of my all-time favorite bands says,
We once drew
Some lines in black
And right now it’s about time
We took them back
So bored of losing ground to the heresy
In our hearts...
Project 86 — Sincerely, Ichabod
Are you sick of losing ground to our adversary, Satan? I know I am. It’s time to get out there and speak the name of Jesus Christ in action and in word. Do Not Keep Silent.
Check out Philippians 4:4–9 and James 4:7-17.
"Always do everything you ask of those you command." - George S. Patton Jr.
In my first year as a youth minister, I took a group of students and adults to Toronto, Canada for a mission trip.
The mission organization’s group leaders took us to a park that, in the evening, was known for immoral activity but during the day was safe. So we took our group of high school students and adult leaders to this park and began to worship God through music and interacting with the few people that we could see in the park. As we began to play music, something very interesting happened: people we hadn’t seen in the bushes and surrounding areas came out to join us. It was obvious that many of these people were homeless or didn’t have anything except for the clothes on their backs. Some of them began to worship with us and others just needed someone to listen as they talked.
Before we left for Canada, I had trained our students and adult leaders as well as I knew how and was very pleased with how well our group from our small town in the United States was doing in this situation. I was excited because I could see these students and adults really getting into helping and sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ with these people.
I had no idea that what we were about to experience was not only going to change our youth ministry but also change me forever.
While we continued to worship, I noticed a man coming toward us who looked as if he had been in a fight not long before our arrival in the park. As he came closer, I realized that this man was covered in blood. To this day I do not know if it was his own blood or someone else’s, but I will tell you what went through my mind:
- I immediately thought of the safety of these students and adults for which I was responsible.
- Since I didn’t know what he needed or if he was dangerous, I immediately began to consider how I could keep this man a safe distance from everyone.
- I thought of my wife whom I had married 10 months earlier, our relationship, and our first child with whom she was pregnant.
I was very afraid as I thought of my new family, for I didn’t know if I would contract some sort of disease from this blood-covered man.
Then it happened! As the man approached me, he stuck out his hand to shake mine in friendship. I was frozen for what seemed like a minute, but I’m sure it was only about a second. What should I do? Then my spirit heard the voice of God say, “Jesus would touch this man.” I knew I had only a split second to obey or disobey God’s leading. I could either touch this man and quite possibly ruin my life, or I could keep him away from me and everyone else so that we were safe but still getting him help. Or I could touch him as Jesus would have touched a leper and welcome him into the group.
I am pleased to say that God gave me the strength to obey His leading. I stuck out my hand. We shook hands and then embraced. We talked for a while, and our group not only got him something to eat but also got him to the right people to get help.
I tell you this story so you understand the importance of your actions and obeying God’s voice when He asks you to do something for Him. You see, your life is not your own. It belongs to God.
I can also tell you, I believe, that that one event in a large park in Canada changed the entire scope of the youth ministry at the church I was serving and in the surrounding community when we returned home.
Why?
Because I heard and obeyed God’s voice, those students as well as the adult leaders knew that I was completely sold out to Christ. They knew that I was willing to put my life on the line to not only help others for the Lord but also to further Christ’s Kingdom.
I am pleased to say that this one event started a revolution in many people in our community that continues to grow throughout the world.
All I did was follow Jesus’ example in ministry! We all need to do the same right now. We need not fear humans or the circumstances we are in; we only must fear and respect God. Only when we grasp and live by this concept will we start to see some progress in society. Jesus trained His disciples by being with them and showing them how to live. He sunk His life into them. If you are a youth leader, pastor, or other Christian leader in your community, who are your disciples? Are they learning how to live the way of Christ or the way of man?
Write down at least three people you need to spend time with and disciple. If you are already meeting with these people, then start spending even more time with them.
Read God’s Word, listen for His voice, and obey His leading. This is all that matters in life. Once we put ourselves behind God and, without fear, put others before ourselves, we will see and experience a mighty work of God. Until that happens, we will continue to live our boring lives sitting in front of the television and computers watching life go by day after day. It’s time we live the adventure.
For further reading on learning Christ’s ways, check out:
Luke 10:1–24 Read carefully and put into practice what Jesus does here. Start learning how to train from the greatest leader ever. He sunk in to the few to further His Kingdom and He is STILL followed today. After all, He walked the earth over 2,000 years ago. He must have done something right.
Luke 10:25–37 How should we treat others? Let’s follow the example of Christ.
In June of 2009, my wife and I lost our 7th child in a miscarriage.
It was a difficult time for us but, by the grace of God, we were able to make it through. It helped me better understand how precious human life really is.
The doctors estimated by the size of our baby that our son died in the fourth month of the pregnancy. What really made it difficult was that my wife was supposed to be in the fifth month of the pregnancy: the baby had been dead for approximately one month. Our local doctor was unsure of what we all were in for, so he wisely sent us to a University hospital to be treated by specialists.
To my surprise, all of the nurses, doctors, and hospital staff were so nice. They were all so sorry that our son had died at four months in the womb. You notice I wrote, “died.”
They not only treated my wife and me with love and dignity, but they also treated our dead son with the same respect and dignity that they gave us. They asked what our son’s name was and if we wanted to have a funeral or have him cremated. They even wrapped him in a blanket and offered to take photos of him so we could remember him.
Please note, this is at the four month stage of his growth during pregnancy. Do you see where this leads us?
If for us – grieving parents who had wanted this baby, doctors were treating our baby as a dead child at four months inside the womb, why is it different for others who get an abortion at four months? Does anyone have an answer?... Anyone?
The fact is, there is no difference. Maybe emotionally there is a difference, but medically, scientifically, and factually speaking, there is no difference. They are the same situation—no matter the intent of the parent, that baby is still a human being. There is no gray area—one option is right and one is wrong. I know which one is right, and if you are willing to let your emotions get out of the way and just look at the facts, you also know which is right. The choice is up to you. Please, please make the right choice!
Please note: If you’ve had an abortion, God does not hate you. And neither do true Christ-followers. We love you and want to help you. Just invite Jesus into your life.
Here are some places you can find help:
http://www.alphacenter.org/
http://www.yourpregnancyoptions.org/
Let these Scripture passages encourage you:
Jeremiah 1:5
Jeremiah 29:11
Genesis 1:26-31
I hope these encourage and challenge you to really love God and others. There are some things here for students as well as their parents. Which ones will you do today and this week?
- Love is putting others before yourself.
- Love is realizing that when a problem or conflict arises that you are a part of the problem or conflict too, instead of just pointing fingers at everyone else.
- Love is helping your brother or sister with their chores not expecting anything in return.
- Love is knowing when to say, “I’m sorry, I was wrong.”
- Love is knowing when to say, “I love you too much to let you keep walking down the wrong path without telling you the truth.”
- Love is putting your dreams aside to fullow God’s dreams for the life He has given you.
- Love is unconditional. At least real love is.
- Love is welcoming your mom or dad at the front door when they come home from work. Just to say “Hi, how was your day?” Then listen to them. Do not ask for anything.
- Love is listening to your parents and obeying them with your words and actions.
- Love is a husband who doesn’t leave his wife when she gets terminally ill.
- Love is a wife who doesn’t leave her husband when he loses his job.
- Love is a mother giving birth.
- Love is dad being there to see his child born.
- Love is writing a letter to your Mom and Dad and thanking them for bringing you into this world and giving you life.
- Love is letting your child have the last meatball for the spaghetti dinner you are having.
- Love is helping your brother or sister with their chores not expecting anything in return.
- Love is letting your children sit in your special chair.
- Love is listening to your parents and honoring them with your actions.
- Love is telling your child, “No.” even if it will cause a conflict with them because as a parent you know that “No” is the right answer.
- Love is giving your child freedom and saying, “Yes.” sometimes to teach them the importance of responsibility.
- Love is rewarding your children when they do the right thing with responsibility and giving them consequences that sting when they mess up. This will help your children learn godly principles.
- Love is spending time with your family. Get off the computer and play some cards or a board game together. (How about put a 1,000 piece-puzzle together and get to know each other again. I learned the importance of this from my friends Mike and Christy Fluegel. Thanks!)
- Love is letting mom and dad go on a date while you clean the house from top to bottom while they are gone.
- Love is slowing down and spending intentional time with God.
- Love is shoveling your neighbors’ sidewalk and driveway.
- Love is not complaining when your parents say “No.” for your own good. Even if you don’t understand. Other than God, who loves you more than they do?
- Love is washing the dishes instead of mom doing it for the umpteenth time.
Go love today!
I Corinthians 13
I John 4:7-12
"Nobody ever defended anything successfully; there is only attack and attack
and attack some more."
- General George S. Patton Jr.
When I first came across this quote, I was very excited because it expresses the method that, I believe, we as Christ-followers need to adopt in advancing the Kingdom of God. We have been in defensive mode for so long that I think we have almost forgotten how to attack Satan and his demons. Let’s just face the facts: Many of us who claim to be Christians have gotten lazy and expect others to take up the mantle of Christ. We need to stop reacting to what the world has to say —we need to act!
When Christ was tempted by Satan in the wilderness for 40 days, how did Jesus engage him? Satan took God’s Word out of context, and Jesus engaged him with the correct interpretation and context of the Word of God. This is what we need to do as well. We need to go on the offensive and speak the truth.
One major hurdle that we must jump over is the poor teaching from some people in the church’s pulpits and leadership. Harsh? Maybe, but many of you reading this know it’s true. Why can I say this so confidently? It’s because I am engaged with pastors and leaders in the church every month who compromise the Word of God and do not take a stand for truth. They let the wisdom of men rule their thoughts and teachings. These heresies are then passed on to their “flock.” Compromise seems to have become the truth of the day. If you think I’m out in left field, please consider the following people I have personally been in contact with just in the past month:
A person who claims to follow Christ, yet says the act of homosexuality is not a sin. She believes that homosexuals should still marry even when I pointed out to her that Jesus states in Matthew 19 that marriage is between one man and one woman.
A United Methodist pastor who teaches that the abortion debate is only a woman’s issue, so men need to take a back seat and not speak up.
At Worldview Warriors, we are dedicated to equipping the saints, adults and students alike, to not only know what they believe and why they believe it, but to be on the offensive and attack the enemy’s lies.
I would like to close with this little truth I learned from my good friend, Shane Adams, who speaks for us occasionally and coaches a high school boys basketball team. He teaches his team, “Play defense, and that defense wins championships!” This sounds a little different from the Patton quote above until you realize what he means by this. Before the season started he told me, “We are going to be the most disciplined team on the floor. We are going to slow the game down and play defense. When we are on offense, we will control the ball until a great shot opens up.”
Do you see the wisdom in this philosophy? Stay on the offense, attack and attack and attack some more. The best defense you can have is a strong offense that looks for the great opportunity to score — not a good opportunity, but a great opportunity. And with this comes discipline.
We need to learn truth and have a solid biblical foundation set in Christ. We need to be disciplined with our relationship with Jesus Christ. We not only need to speak the truth in love but we need to show truth though our actions as well. As Christ-followers we need to engage people right where they are in the culture. Remember that people who are blinded by false teachings are not the enemy; Satan and his demons are the enemy. We need to speak and act in love toward people.
Ephesians 6:12 – “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”
Do you agree that discipline is a good thing or not? Why do you think that way? Back it up with scripture.
Further reading on discipline (Living as a person of discipline and receiving discipline):
Job 5:17
Proverbs 19:20
II Timothy 1:17
Revelation 3:18-20
"What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun." - Ecclesiastes 1:9
As I continue to read and research human history there is one thing that just keeps circulating and circulating around in every generation: the more things change, the more they stay the same.
The human condition is one that so many people try to overcome with new technology, wealth, or even physical pleasure. Others try to fix this condition with knowledge. They think, “If only we could know enough and educate ourselves enough we could cure every disease known to man or fix every problem with money and ‘know how’.”
The plain reality is that we are selfish. Every human being deals with this problem. Many of us are always trying to figure out, “What’s in it for me?” or, “How can I get a leg up in this endeavor?”
The problem isn’t that we don’t have enough money or knowledge or know how. The problem is that we are selfish. We are born into this world as sinners and we need a Savior to not only save us from ourselves and our selfish desires, but to save us from the consequence of our sin: death.
Try as we might, we cannot overcome this condition on our own. Overcoming our selfish desires on our own is just too much in the end. On our own, all we think about is me, me, me. We will all die someday and life is far too short to live a selfish life.
I think back to the years that I only lived for me. I thought I was advancing things for the good of humanity, only to find out and finally see that I was living not only for my own destruction, but for the ultimate destruction of everything that was right and good. Once I realized that I was only repeating the mistakes of others in the past and not learning from them is when my life really began. In 1995 I thought I had given my whole self to Christ. I tried to serve Him in everything I did, but to be honest with you, it has only been a few years since I have realized and have begun to learn what it means to serve Christ in this new creation that I have become. I now realize how much I need to hear and obey the Holy Spirit in all I do. Do I want to serve Christ? Of course! The way to do that is to hear the voice of God and obey Him.
Once I made the very conscious decision to fear and respect God and not fear people is when my personal relationship with Jesus Christ began to really grow and take shape. I had no idea how much I let others influence and direct me with the fear I had in what others thought of me or would perceive about me. Once I gave that up, strived to do everything I did with integrity, lived a life based on God’s Word, and really let the Holy Spirit rule in my heart is when I could put my head down on the pillow at night and have no worries.
And do you know what Jesus had to say about worrying? He said, “So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” – Matthew 6:31 – 34
I want to encourage you to not be like an unbeliever. Do not worry. Once followers of Christ start living in this way and the world sees what it really means to be His followers, they will have to stand up and take notice. We need to love. We need to learn from people’s mistakes and successes of the past. The key to the present and future lie in the past.
“Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.” – General George S. Patton Jr.
For further study:
If you call yourself a Christ–follower are you really following Him and His ways or are you a Christian by name only?
Have you truly given over all the areas of your life over to God?
Who and/or what do you really fear?
Do you really trust God or just say you do?
Do you agree with Jason’s take on this subject? Why or why not? Back your answer with scripture, not with what you “think is right” or “feel is right.”
