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by Jason DeZurik

As a child, I was blessed to grow up in the home of a railroader who loved his family dearly. Even though it seemed at times that my mother desired to work outside the home, she chose to stay home when my sister and I were younger, well into our junior high years. I had no idea what a blessing this all truly was, nor did I realize the sacrifices my father and mother made for us in many things until I was much older. My father was your typical railroader who was incredibly strong and very mentally tough. Once my mother became a follower of Jesus Christ, my father “knew” my mother was meeting with some other guy at the church she would bring my sister and me to almost weekly. Dare I say, my father seemed quite jealous of this other guy.

In the mid-1970s, on a cold and snowy evening in Minnesota, my father got into a very bad car accident where the jaws of life were needed to cut him out of his car. Near as we can tell, he had fallen asleep at the wheel and hit a culvert head-on. The only injuries he received were a broken collarbone and a gash on the top of his head. Looking back, he probably had a nasty concussion, too.

The only people who went to see him in the hospital were people from that church and the pastor of that congregation. My mother had been going to see a guy at the church… His name was Jesus Christ, and she was learning how to love Him and surrender her life to Him. My father surrendered his life to Jesus Christ in that hospital, thanks to the love not only of God but also because of the example of Christ he saw in the people of that congregation and of Pastor Wallace Henk.

In 2025, at my father’s Celebration of Life service, a dear friend of ours got up and spoke about my father and his love, not only for the Lord, but also about how my father lived in leading people to the Lord. He said, “Frank was just… RELENTLESS!” And that right there is THE word that explains my father well. He was relentless in everything. My father NEVER shut off. Being the son of a man like this was very trying at times. He was always striving for excellence. Whether it was work time, play time, or just relaxing time, he was RELENTLESS! I am thankful for him showing my sister and me the importance of living life for Christ in everything. He was relentless for the Lord.

Years ago, as an adult, one of my disciplers introduced me to something that my father never formally introduced me to, but that my father lived out in every second of every day. He set the example in everything he did. It’s what I am about to share with you: 10 Biblical convictions that every Godly man should teach his family.

Discipleship is so important, especially of a father to his own children. Sadly, it seems as if this is something that many of us have lost the art of doing. In the United States of America and even inside the Church, the breakdown of the family that God has instituted is more obvious and more prevalent than ever. I believe we need to get back to what God has established if we are to move forward as a Church and a nation.

I hope and pray that you will prayerfully consider implementing the following in your own life and in the life of your family.

#1 - God alone is sovereign. The Bible is the inspired Word of God and needs to be the final authority for my life. (Exodus 20:3; Matthew 4:4)

#2 - Seeking God with my whole heart needs to be my priority in my life. I need to build goals around God's priorities. (Exodus 20:4-5; Matthew 6:33)

#3 - My body is the living temple of the Lord God and must not be defiled by the lusts of this world. (Exodus 20:7; Mark 7:21-23)

#4 - The Church I attend must teach the foundational truths of the Bible and reinforce my basic convictions. (Exodus 20:8; 2 Chronicles 7:14; Matthew 7:15-16)

#5 - My children and grandchildren belong to God. It is my responsibility to teach them scriptural principles, Godly character, and basic convictions. (Exodus 20:12; Deuteronomy 6:6-7; Matthew 19:14)

#6 - My actions must never weaken the Scriptural convictions of another Christian brother or sister. (Exodus 20:13; Proverbs 28:10; Matthew 18:6; Romans 14:13)

#7 - My marriage is a life-long commitment to God and to my wife. (Exodus 20:14; Proverbs 6:32; Matthew 19:6; Romans 7:2-3)

#8 - The money I have is a trust from God. It must be earned and managed according to Scriptural principles. (Exodus 20:15; Proverbs 15:6; Luke 16:11; 1 Timothy 6:10)

#9 - My words must be in harmony with God’s Word, especially when attempting to reprove and restore a Christian brother. (Exodus 20:16; Proverbs 18:21; Matthew 12:37; Galatians 6:1)

#10 - My affections and desires must be set on things above, not on earthly things. (Exodus 20:17; Matthew 6:20-21)

“Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong. Let all that you do be done with love” (1 Corinthians 16:13-14).

In other words:

1. Be on alert for spiritual danger!
2. Stand on God's Word no matter what!
3. Let your actions then speak! Be courageous!
4. Be Strong!
5. Be long-suffering, kind, and loving!

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